Support
Support that meets you where you are
Some weeks you need a room full of people who already understand. Some days you need one hour with somebody who has walked it. Both are here, and you never have to choose before you are ready.
The free 12-step program
Twelve steps to renew your mind, find peace, and bring some light and structure back into your week. It is the same framework Jonny’s Angels groups use all over the world, and it is where nearly everybody begins.
Free when you leave your email, and free for as long as you need it. Nothing to prepare, and nothing to pay, ever.
Kathryn sends the invitations and meeting reminders herself. Unsubscribe any time.
What the twelve steps do
- Be witnessedSay what happened out loud, to people who will not flinch.
- Renew your mindMeet the thoughts grief installs, and learn what to do with them.
- Find some peaceSmall, repeatable practices for the heaviest hours.
- Turn mourning to lightFind the meaning, and the purpose hidden inside the pain.
Weekly community meetings
Every Thursday we gather on Zoom. Angel parents, siblings, and parents and grandparents living with cut off culture, all welcomed by name and truly seen.
This is a place where you can talk about your ick and still be loved. Whether estrangement follows a death or stands on its own, this room understands it as grief. Come once and you will understand why our members call it the anchor of their week.
- Billed monthly. Cancel any time, by one email, no questions asked.
- Members join from all over the world. Prices are in US dollars.
- If the cost is what stands in your way, write to Kathryn. Nobody is turned away.
We will confirm your first meeting by email within one day. Online checkout is being connected; until then Kathryn sends simple payment instructions herself.
A daily practice
The Grief-to-Light Daily Journal
When you are carrying the death of a child, sibling loss or cut off culture, the weight of a single day can feel like more than you can lift. You should not have to work out where to start on your own.
This journal takes you gradually from deep mourning toward small, manageable moments of light.
- A map of the whole 12-step system, from mourning to light
- Morning grounding prompts written for the heaviest days
- Evening release and reflection pages, to quiet your mind before sleep
- Weekly trackers for the small shifts you would otherwise miss
- Permission slips for moments of joy, with no guilt attached
A printable PDF you download and begin tonight. Yours to keep and print as often as you need.
Download your journalSecure checkout is being connected. Until then we will send your download link by email, usually the same day.
Private coaching
Sessions and packages to heal, find joy and meaning
True healing starts when somebody truly sees you. Every session is with Kathryn herself, on Zoom, anywhere in the world.
60-minute coaching session
Deep listening from somebody who walks beside you from mourning to light. Together you find the meaning in what you have been through, and the purpose hidden inside the pain.
Three-session package
Three private 60-minute sessions. Room to go deeper, at a gentler pace, with the same person each time.
30-minute support call
A short, intentional practice for the moments that arrive without warning. Relief and clarity when you need them most.
Jonny’s Angels on YouTube
Miracle stories of connection with our angel children in Heaven, and honest talk about grief and about cut off culture with a surviving child or a grandchild.
Kathryn Anderson children’s books
The road Kathryn walked out of the dark places, and the stories that carry Heaven’s truths for children and adults alike.
Not sure where to begin?
Start with the free 12 steps on Tuesday. The rest of it will find you when you are ready for it.